I am very sure that you have been worried sick
over his elicit and unobtrusive behaviour of recent.
Here is the bitter truth, you just recreated a schizoid son.
You have indirectly created this social self in him;
a recognition of himself based only on what you have instilled in him.
You have carved a super-ego in him that mandates him to conform to the family standards.
You have given him a direct blow on his self-esteem.
You have abused him and compared him with his mates because you find him not good enough (comparison is a thief of joy- Theodore Roosevelt)
You have incessantly shown him derogatory attitudes and asperity because of his one mistake
And you expect him not to withdraw into his shell and lock up.
You show an open preference for his siblings and expect him not to undermine his security and double his efforts to outshine them?
As a result, he has developed this masochistic trends and you are worried
He does not depend on you now any more but on others - his peer group (your thought exactly)
Here is the bitter truth, you just recreated a schizoid son.
You have indirectly created this social self in him;
a recognition of himself based only on what you have instilled in him.
You have carved a super-ego in him that mandates him to conform to the family standards.
You have given him a direct blow on his self-esteem.
You have abused him and compared him with his mates because you find him not good enough (comparison is a thief of joy- Theodore Roosevelt)
You have incessantly shown him derogatory attitudes and asperity because of his one mistake
And you expect him not to withdraw into his shell and lock up.
You show an open preference for his siblings and expect him not to undermine his security and double his efforts to outshine them?
As a result, he has developed this masochistic trends and you are worried
He does not depend on you now any more but on others - his peer group (your thought exactly)
And you think ' so
what's new in the whiskey business?'
Come on! Resist the use of such blunt and incendiary words. They are alive and highly inflammatory. Use prayers and love on him before you irrevocably have for yourself, a narcissistic son incapable of loving either himself or anyone else.
Come on! Resist the use of such blunt and incendiary words. They are alive and highly inflammatory. Use prayers and love on him before you irrevocably have for yourself, a narcissistic son incapable of loving either himself or anyone else.
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